Making new friends as an adult is not so easy. In your youth it just happened – today the days are full, old friends are far away, and a genuine new connection has to grow first. If you are looking for people in Washington, D.C. with whom more than small talk is possible, read on.
Why it has become harder
So much runs through the screen these days: you are constantly reachable and yet often alone. Sports clubs are great if you like the sport – but not everyone wants to jog or kick a ball first in order to make new acquaintances. And apps may get you into a conversation, but rarely into a real, lasting circle. What many people miss is a settled group in which you grow together over the years.
A circle you grow into
There is exactly such a circle in Washington, D.C.: a group of men who meet regularly to laugh together, enjoy the arts and cultivate friendship. You come as a guest, look on a few times – and over time become part of a community in which people really know one another. No pressure, no need to perform: simply a dependable evening among friends.
The best of it: what counts here is not what you have achieved professionally, but who you are. Titles and background stay outside – inside, humour, listening and an open nature are what matter.
How the first evening goes
The first step is smaller than you think. You sign up briefly, come along as a guest and are received like a good acquaintance who was expected. You need prepare nothing, perform nothing and impress no one – you may simply be there and see how you like the group. An experienced member takes you under their wing.
If you enjoy it, you come again – and by the second or third time people already know your name. That is how friendship grows: not in one big step, but in many small, dependable evenings. Just the quiet certainty that in Washington, D.C. you have a place where people are glad to see you.
🦉 This circle has a name: Schlaraffia – a worldwide menʼs association for humour, art and friendship. In Washington, D.C. there is a chapter of its own that is glad of new faces.
Take the first step
Come along as a guest – free, without obligation and with no strings attached.